Jason M. asked: Alright, this is no joke. I’m 21 male. Growing up, I was never overly-horny. I’ve had a GF and we had regular sex, but I was able to totally concentrate on school work, jobs, and sports. I don’t know, but I want that old self back!
For the past year, my *** drive FLEW THROUGH THE ROOF. I don’t know if it’s my lack of sleep, or the food I ate, or what. I’ve been hooking up endlessly with girls. When we study together, we usually end up having *** (even the night before finals!). When I had a girlfriend, of course I stopped having *** with other girls, but sometimes I’d call her over and bang her 3-5 times a day, many times MISSING CLASS to do it.
I mean, you’d think I get enough? I’m here right now at 4:49am…..my study-buddy is sleeping in my bed. I have a midterm exam tomorrow and I cannot concentrate at all! I’m sitting here, textbook in hand, and for the last 4 hours I’ve been thinking about girls and ***. No lie.
Well, a few months ago my advisor said the university is kicking me out because of failing grades and failure to attend class. I cannot believe what I’ve done to myself. I’m getting kicked out of Yale for a year. No lie. Before this I had a perfect 4.0, I was in every club, etc….all of a sudden my GPA this semester is a 1.3.
I’m also getting fired from my internship with a big firm. I’ve been chronically late to work; I’ve been caught looking at **** on company computers; I’ve been reported by OTHER employees for intense office flirting (and distracting other women’s ability to work, apparently). I can’t believe this.
As much as I try to keep my mind off it, I simply can’t. Having more *** doesn’t help either. I mean, it helps a BIT, and I get to focus for a little bit, but 2 days later I’m back to obsessing about *** again.
I also totally don’t feel as sharp as I used to be. What the hell is wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to curb this problem? Any type of food I can eat that can help me focus? Talk about career-suicide.