Apr 08
Guys please help me with this. Am I wishing for something that isn’t there or does he like me? What do i do?
So this guy that I have liked since last year and I went out for coffee in September and had a ton to talk about. We tried to hang out after but with sports and all it was tough. We talked online though. This semester I suggested that we grab lunch or dinner sometime and the next week he called me and said that I should come over and that he was going to make me dinner. There he told me that he enjoyed my company. A couple weeks later we went out to a bar and he did something new. He was all of a sudden more touchy feely when we were talking. Recently I was nominatd for an award at my school and he said he’d love to go with me. His friend was nominated too. All my friends seem to think he’s into me.He’s very sociable and told me that I looked beautiful, which no guy has ever said to me before after I told him he cleaned up well. We went back to his friend’s apt. I just am very confused on why he hasn’t made a move yet or if he even likes me. I want to say something to him. Please help!
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I was invited on Monday night over to his friend’s apt. by his friend’s older brother so I assume they like me or I wouldn’t have been invited. All of my friend’s think he’s into after the awards, but he hasn’t made a move. We were supposed to hang out this week but there are finals next week so that has to wait until next week. Any thoughts?
4 days ago
I was going to tell him so I could have closure for the summer and move on if it came to that. Is that a good thing to do?
So we’re supposed to hang out this weekend too. but his ex wants him to visit her because she lives out of state. I believe they are only friends, but I just really need to know if hes still hooked on her. Does it sound like it? I mean they talk on facebook and such but she initiates it.
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One Response to “Guys please help me with this. Am I wishing for something that isn’t there or does he like me? What do i do?”
If he ended up calling you to go out one night and got much closer to you and started getting more touchy-feely, that’s a good thing. That definitely tells me he likes you. And if he asked if he could go with you to this award ceremony, that’s actually showing that he cares enough about you to want to come with you to something like that. If he hasn’t made a move on you yet, maybe he’s either nervous, shy, or he feels like he hasn’t seen or felt like it’s the right time yet. As far as you wanting to say something to him…do it. just come flat out and tell him how you feel about him. Something along the lines of…I’ve really enjoyed the time we’ve been spending together and I want you to know that I really like you and would like to make it more permanent. You make me feel better about myself when I’m with you, and that should give you something about how he feels about you. But, don’t pressure him into saying more than he wants to before the time is right for him, otherwise you risk the chance of scaring him off. Just be patient, be strong and have faith that everything will work out in the end. good luck