Oct 21
Guys: Where do you think this is going?
My co-worker had mentioned me–a huge baseball fan–to her male friend. The guy said he was interested in meeting me, a girl who’s into sports. My co-worker gave my email to him he contacted me.
1st date:
Dinner in a nice Italian restaurant.
Chat about world travel, school (he’s a teacher), and baseball.
8pm to 11:30pm.
When he drove me back home, he said he’d be out of town for thanksgiving. When he comes back he’ll call me.
(He came back home from thanksgiving holiday. He called me and asked if we could maybe do something next weekend. He had no ideas or times planned yet. He just wanted to see me again. I called him back said I wanted to watch a boxing match on Saturday).
2nd date: (1 week after 1st date)
Went to his friend’s house. They were having work Christmas Party. They had HBO PPV boxing match on TV, too!
After match, we chatted the night out.
8p to 12:30a.
(He drove me back home. He said we would go out after my finals are done.)
3rd date: (1 week after 2nd date… last night)
Went to my favorite Mexican restaurant
Chatted the night until 9:50p when movie started
Watched Milk together in the theater
Got home around 12:30a.
No hold hands. No kiss. No hug.
Guys, where do you think this is going?
Dear Lord, I like him… A LOT!
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4 Responses to “Guys: Where do you think this is going?”
I think if you like him, you should make the first move. Maybe he is just shy about that sort of thing or doesn’t know if you are ready yet.
You two aren’t an official couple yet so the holding hands thing isn’t a big deal but try a first kiss on your next date when he drops you off.
If you don’t like him, then stop the dates and just let him know you weren’t feeling it.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
He might be having a hard time reading whether you are interested or not, so he hasn’t made a move yet. He probably really likes you, but doesn’t want to scare you off by making a move you might not be comfortable with.
Next time you guys go out, maybe take his hand in yours or something, or kiss him on the cheek if he says something you like. This might warm him up and reassure him, so he will at least kiss you when he drops you off. Maybe even invite him inside, see what happens.
Sounds like it could go somewhere. You talk a lot and seem to have similar interests. If he hasnt kissed you it could be because he is waiting for a slight hint from you. A close hug or two might do it, or you could go for it yourself. That would probably suprise him a little but he wouldnt be aprehensive anymore.
Perhaps he is simply a gentleman and is reticent to push too fast. Maybe he is a man of true character and is looking for the type of relationship on which a lasting marriage can be built. Possibly he is a Godly man and wants to wait until he is married before receiving the gifts you have to offer.