Feb 03
HELP! How do I control my sexual appetite? I’ve lost my job, been kicked out of school, etc?
Alright, this is no joke. I’m 21 male. Growing up, I was never overly-horny. I’ve had a GF and we had regular sex, but I was able to totally concentrate on school work, jobs, and sports. I don’t know, but I want that old self back!
For the past year, my *** drive FLEW THROUGH THE ROOF. I don’t know if it’s my lack of sleep, or the food I ate, or what. I’ve been hooking up endlessly with girls. When we study together, we usually end up having *** (even the night before finals!). When I had a girlfriend, of course I stopped having *** with other girls, but sometimes I’d call her over and bang her 3-5 times a day, many times MISSING CLASS to do it.
I mean, you’d think I get enough? I’m here right now at 4:49am…..my study-buddy is sleeping in my bed. I have a midterm exam tomorrow and I cannot concentrate at all! I’m sitting here, textbook in hand, and for the last 4 hours I’ve been thinking about girls and ***. No lie.
Well, a few months ago my advisor said the university is kicking me out because of failing grades and failure to attend class. I cannot believe what I’ve done to myself. I’m getting kicked out of Yale for a year. No lie. Before this I had a perfect 4.0, I was in every club, etc….all of a sudden my GPA this semester is a 1.3.
I’m also getting fired from my internship with a big firm. I’ve been chronically late to work; I’ve been caught looking at **** on company computers; I’ve been reported by OTHER employees for intense office flirting (and distracting other women’s ability to work, apparently). I can’t believe this.
As much as I try to keep my mind off it, I simply can’t. Having more *** doesn’t help either. I mean, it helps a BIT, and I get to focus for a little bit, but 2 days later I’m back to obsessing about *** again.
I also totally don’t feel as sharp as I used to be. What the hell is wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to curb this problem? Any type of food I can eat that can help me focus? Talk about career-suicide.
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7 Responses to “HELP! How do I control my sexual appetite? I’ve lost my job, been kicked out of school, etc?”
dude….. its called your hand m8. watch porn, sure it isnt the same but hopefully that will help. just watch some **** and give er a good fap.
*fights cancer you know
you should see a shrink buddy
Try Rosie Palmer and her 5 sisters. SERIOUSLY!
ouch.. you need some professional help.. i may not be fond of them but you need to go see a shrink.. there are lots of groups too out there who help *** addicts..
1. Jack off every fifteen minutes.
2. If you know that you are going to drill your study buddy anyway, you might as well manage your time for it. Study earlier so that after action time, it’s still early to sleep.
3. Office enviroment can’t be helped. you just have to deal with it.
Rather then try ot avoid it. Allocate time for it. Basically work your time around your habits. Make sure you have enough time to study in between bangs. This way, you can get your load off and go straight back to your books.
Well personally I would talk to a doctor, not necessarily because your problem is entirely medically based, but it sounds like a physical (sexual) addiction, and they should at least be able to give you some advice on how to curb it.
I don’t mean that in a derogatory or even mean way, but if *** is actually controlling you, and having precedence over your life, then it does sound like an addiction, or at least a pretty damn tight dependence.
Personally, I wouldn’t know what to suggest, I mean ************ is a decent enough suggestion, but if it is genuinely sexual *********** with someone that you desire, then it really isn’t going to help.
Have you just considered that your life falling apart might be a good time to try going cold turkey from the snoo-snoo?
Even just a day?
To me that doesn’t sound very hard, but if you have an addiction, I know that this won’t be easy, and you will have to use every device to drive you to distraction…
You could try throwing yourself into your studies, instead of into the ladies,avoid situations that you would normally relate as a situation that could turn into ***.
I mean if you know that you won’t do your work properly with a girl alone with you, why would you tempt yourself?
That’s about all the advice I can think of, I wish you the best of luck!
I think I know what’s wrong. Yes, you want a lot of *** and you can get it too apparently you’re not too concerned about STDs. You said it was less when you had a girlfriend. What you need is a relationship. Looking a **** will only make things worse. Think about it, in 20 years do you want to have had *** with so many girls you can’t remember or have a job and maybe a family? What is your most important thing in life? So, maybe it’s not God like mine but surely *** can’t be yours. You need a job to pay for food, housing, a car etc. You need to stop having ***. I know that sounds crazy but it should help. Don’t watch things on the t.v. or internet that are about ***. Don’t look at pictures of women or go to places like hooters. Don’t imagine *** in your head. Instead imagine what your life will be like if you ruin it the way you currently are heading. In the future do you want to be married? If you do you’ll feel bad getting into bed with her and remembering all those other girls you mindlessly like an animal had *** with. I know guys think about *** a lot but trust me it will be easier the less you think about it. You think I’m crazy right? How do you explain getting more *** and not being satisfied? **** and *** with someone other than someone who is your wife will ruin your life. If you are addicted to **** put up filters on your computer and get help. Don’t let someone like *** which isn’t even loving that will fade away rule your life.