Mar 04
Question to those who are Pro Choice-For abortion?
Jen Wilson asked:
Guys lets say you are about 31 years old and married. Your wife is pregnant with the only child you will ever have,(and you really want the baby) and your father is on his death bed and wants nothing more than to meet his first and only grand child before he dies. So your wife tells you she is having an abortion because she doesn’t want to get fat or be a mom or she wants to have a career. She goes and has an abortion killing your one and only unborn child without your permission. Your father dies without ever getting his final wish. Do you still think it was your wifes choice and not care?
Remember you will never have another chance to have a kid, That was your one and only chance to be a father and make your father a grandpa. Would you have a change of heart then?
Pro Choice Means- You agree with a woman’s right to choose to have an abortion, in other words you agree with women having abortions. You see nothing wrong with it, therefore you are for abortion, not against abortion.
By The way- This is a true story and yes my brother divorced the B*tch,. They did discuss starting a family and She wanted to, They were married for 9 years. They bought a house and they both worked full time. My bro made more than enough money for her to quit her job but she had an addiction to spending money on expensive jewelry. She is now pregnant with another mans baby and from what I saw on her Myspace page she has no intention of keeping this baby either.
He can not have kids now due to a motorcycle accident that occurred about a week after she found out she was pregnant.
James G. Lets see you say that when your wife does something wrong to you.
Guys lets say you are about 31 years old and married. Your wife is pregnant with the only child you will ever have,(and you really want the baby) and your father is on his death bed and wants nothing more than to meet his first and only grand child before he dies. So your wife tells you she is having an abortion because she doesn’t want to get fat or be a mom or she wants to have a career. She goes and has an abortion killing your one and only unborn child without your permission. Your father dies without ever getting his final wish. Do you still think it was your wifes choice and not care?
Remember you will never have another chance to have a kid, That was your one and only chance to be a father and make your father a grandpa. Would you have a change of heart then?
Pro Choice Means- You agree with a woman’s right to choose to have an abortion, in other words you agree with women having abortions. You see nothing wrong with it, therefore you are for abortion, not against abortion.
By The way- This is a true story and yes my brother divorced the B*tch,. They did discuss starting a family and She wanted to, They were married for 9 years. They bought a house and they both worked full time. My bro made more than enough money for her to quit her job but she had an addiction to spending money on expensive jewelry. She is now pregnant with another mans baby and from what I saw on her Myspace page she has no intention of keeping this baby either.
He can not have kids now due to a motorcycle accident that occurred about a week after she found out she was pregnant.
James G. Lets see you say that when your wife does something wrong to you.
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38 Responses to “Question to those who are Pro Choice-For abortion?”
Never but then I am pro life.
That’s really not the point of pro-choice. You’re being ridiculous.
It was her choice, although married which would in my case, severely **** me off since I would be 31, and would like a family around then. It’s more emotional than ‘is Abortion moral?’ kind of situation. But I’d be mad if she went ahead, and extremely more so if my father was on his deathbed. Those kind of things tear families apart.
Wow, that is the most realistic abortion scenario I have ever read. I am going to have to think about changing my mind. Thanks for the insight.
I think it is wrong. If she didn’t want the baby she should of used protection. If she had any heart she would have the baby and if she didn’t want it give it to him to have. If I were him I would sue her
im prolife and could never let that happen. The only circumstance which i would allow an abortion is if a woman was ***** and had it done immediately and before the cell starts to form a baby. Think about how hard it would be for a woman to bear the child of a ******.
Morally, I don’t think this is right but I do believe that a woman should have the right to do what they want with their own body. I mean wouldn’t you not like it if you wanted a tattoo or pierce your ear and people told you that you cannot and would disown you if you did? I think that if someone is not ready to have a baby, than they shouldn’t. I wouldn’t have a baby just to show my dad that he is a grandfather if I am not ready for the responsibility. A baby is a living, breathing thing and nothing to be taken for granted. The couple should have discussed this before they got married. Anyway.. you can’t have an abortion after 3 months or so, so if the guy was on his death bed, he wouldn’t be able to see the baby anyway.
EDIT: Pro-Choice does NOT mean pro-abortion. in simply means what it say: pro-CHOICE.
this is something the couple should have discussed before even getting married. so many people get married but don’t discuss when to have kids, IF they will have kids, etc…
I love your questions!
I am pro life.
Ultimately, it is your wife’s life and her body. Her disrepect for you and your opinion as a man and husband may signal an end to the marriage, but the woman has the right to CHOOSE what is best for HER, and to use her body the way she wishes, and not in furtherance of the husband’s demands.
Hypothetically being the father, I would have to accept that decision. It’s her that would be carrying the child, not me.
You would think your wife would care about your opinion. If she doesn’t, then why be with her? It’s not about whether it’s her opinion or not, or whether she has the choice, it’s whether she is heartless or considers her husband as a person.
All decisions made between a couple should have equal weight with both sides - especially children. If something matters that much to your husband, and would crush him to not have it, then that should weigh her choice in the matter. It’s still her choice what she does though.
it might be for the better, that person sounds like she would be a god awful mom. i think she should rather not have a child at all.
I take offense to the thought that just because you are Pro-Choice you must also be Pro-Abortion. That is a complete farce of logic.
AND!!!!
To answer your question… The ***** ain’t my wife no more. I now have more opportunities. Thanks. (What a poorly thought out question.)
I would be very upset that she didn’t consult with me first, but I would get over it. After all, it’s a decision for both of us to make, but I did the easy part. She would have to do the hard work for the next nine months.
I think anyone would… thats a very unique and heartbreaking situation.
Not to mention unfair… when people are married they’re a couple and are duty bound to make important decisions together.
For the wife to go ahead and without consultation go through with the abortion is cold hearted and cruel to the husband.
We’re not talking about **** here or non-consensual pregancy right? Thatd be the only excuse…
but if it was just a plain ol pregnancy and my wife pulled something like that? Not discussing it at all with me?
I’d divorce the in a nanosecond.
Mind you, I support any women’s right to choose, but thats not the issue here. The issue is this cold hearted women who cares nothing for the feelings of her partner… I’d kick her to the curb faster than you can say “C ya later”.
I am pro life and I’d say there needs to be a law that lets the father also make a decision about his child, not just the mom…it’s really sad how much power women have over this, yet the father who as a parent should have equal rights has no say.
If I were in that situation thou I’d divorce my wife and start a new family when I am ready
Just because people agree with abortions doesn’t mean that they agree with specific examples like that one. In this case obviously it was wrong of the wife to go get that done without talking to her husband first. It should be a mutual agreement not something that the wife should go do and hide. Again I say this under these circumstances. If it was a boyfriend who wants nothing to do with the child then obviously the girl can do what she wants. But if her choice is affecting other people especially the other person in the relationship she shouldn’t be so selfish to make the choice on her own.
That is a very specific situation and one that would be rather unfortunate. Abortion is never a good thing but it is the opinion of many people that such a choice is not for the government to make, but rather the people involved (the mother, the father, etc.) I don’t think the situation you describe is anything remotely close to the norm but if someone was really in that situation I would feel very sorry for them. The vast majority of abortions are a difficult choice between two evils (a child of **** or ****** or one that the mother is unable to care for versus the termination of a ball of cells or forming fetus). These are always difficult decisions and this is why it is very important that couples be open with one another and practice contraception to avoid unwanted pregnancies.
I think of it like the gun argument. Killing another person is always wrong but most of us don’t think that the government should decide we can’t keep guns for self defense. Likewise, most sane people think that ending a potential life is a bad thing but the alternatives can be worse and it’s not for the government to decide for us.
Your question lost credibility with me when you said pro-choice means “for abortion”. That’s BS. It means you believe in a woman’s right to choose.
I am married. If my wife decided to abort my child I would leave her. That’s something I could never forgive. But it doesn’t make your question a valid one. That’s why it’s called choice and I am for that choice. She has a right to abort and I have a right to leave.
Pro Choice Means- You agree with a woman’s right to choose to have an abortion (TRUE)
…, in other words you agree with women having abortions. (FALSE)
…You see nothing wrong with it, therefore you are for abortion, not against abortion. (FALSE)
You have spun a statement to try and make a point, when it’s clear what I have said. The only true statement you made in the rebuttal was the first statement I outlined as true. The other subsequent statements are false and ludicrous.
That’s why it’s called pro choice, it’s her decision, not her fathers on his death bed. I’m not saying that it’s a good decision, it’s selfish but it’s hers.
I’m pro choice but only in certain instances, such as rape, a child that is young and can’t support the child and has family that can’t support it, developmental issues or it’s a risk for the mother.
That is only one scenario.
Say you only have one wife & she will die during child birth, conceived by a violent ****…than what? Keep it legal, safe & within the first term; they will still happen only in non sterile places by know nothing people, thus putting the lives of 2 in jeopardy.
I will never be pregnant therefore I will never be the ultimate decider on whether or not to continue a pregnancy. I can’t FORCE her to carry to term.
What’s wrong with adoption?
If it were for the first two reasons, I’d say that was pretty damn selfish. The third is understandable, but if it were that important, why wasn’t she on the pill or something. Plus, by the time you’re in your 30s, having a baby shouldn’t ruin your chance of having a successful career. None of these have to do with the abortion debate, that is, whether or not it is morally wrong, which is for the couple to decide for themselves. All of the other stuff, while unfortunate, shouldn’t change how you feel about abortion IN GENERAL. If you’re against it, you’re always against it, if you’re pro-choice, I would hope it would take more than these to make you decide to abort it, esp if this is your only chance.
It was her body, so it would be her choice.
I get divorced. There are plenty of ******.
Yes, it is still the wife’s choice.
And I wouldn’t have a baby for anyone other than myself…husband or no husband.
Such a stretch.
Wouldn’t you say this is a rather extreme “example”?
I don’t believe in an abortion unless the person is ***** or other horrible circumstances like health of my “hypothetical wife” and whatnot. But if she strongly feels about it, I can’t force her to have a baby since I was never close to my dad to begin with.
it is quite hypocritical do you think that the pro death crowd yells reproductive rights ? what about the mans reproductive rights? abortion is wrong from all angles
name one instance that a women was going to die if she didn’t get an abortion ? there is none to date who didn’t die anyway
why if a man hits a 1 month pregnant mother resulting in miscarriage will be charged with murder ?
instead of funding abortion which harms female body psychically and psychologically we fund adoption clinics and tax breaks to those who adopt ?
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There’s a fundamental difference between your wife having an abortion without your agreement and an arbitrary ban on abortion by the government. There are many reasons why one might support the legal right to abortion but still be opposed to the practice. For one thing, banning abortion would imply the need for some sort of Uterine Gestapo with the power to rummage through women’s medical records, such as that which exists in Chile, El Salvador, and other Latin American countries. In my view, it’s really a matter of privacy and of restricting the power of the state over the individual.
I’m also opposed to drug prohibition, as I think it’s immoral, counterproductive, and immensely wasteful. That does not mean I’m “pro-meth” or for anyone taking drugs.
Why would anyone want to bring a baby into this world with such a selfish and uncaring woman? What clueless fool would marry her without talking about things like having kids first?
If having a baby was so important to the husband, this should have been discussed before the wedding. Why would you marry someone who had such different view on children? And why would this be the husband’s only chance? Divorce the wife and have a baby with someone who wants one. You talk like no man over the age of 31 was able to father a child.
Abortion was the way to go for sure because the genes for these two losers should never be passed down. They are the shallow end of the gene pool.
Yes I do think it was her choice. Not a good one, but its her body so its always her choice. However, in that situation I would think that your biggest problem is your marriage. What sort of a woman would do that? You are married, did you not know that she didn’t want children? I think you should have had this discussion before you were married. In some ways you should be grateful you didn’t have children with this woman. She is not normal. To not have children simply because you don’t want to get fat? or because of a career? Those are not good reasons to have an abortion, especially if you are married and you are in a stable relationship. After this I would say your relationship is doomed. The heart can forgive but doesn’t ever forget.
and just because i’m curious. Why would this be your one and only chance?
That’s not an abortion issue. That’s a marriage issue.
If a woman is going to get an abortion against the wishes of her husband, then maybe they shouldn’t be married.
That doesn’t say anything about abortion. It’s just says that maybe some people have messed up relationships with their husbands, enough to abort their baby without discussing it with their spouse.
A woman in a happy marriage with a loving, caring, responsible husband will GLADLY have his baby.
So what was HIS problem?
I believe it’s the dad choice. I LOVE ABORTION
how sad for your brother and your brothers baby! she sounds like she needs to learn what birth control is or how to keep her legs closed…instead of continuing to get pregnant and thinking abortion is the answer. I am pro-life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well I have Children, not Choices.