Mar 15 2007
Does your family keep secrets?
R asked:
My mother is really bad about keeping scereats “for our own good” The first time i knew of was when i was in college my uncle died and his funeral was during my final exams. We could not afford for me to come home and my ticket to come home was already set for the week later. She did not tell me he died tell i got home. Then i recently found out that my grand father is not my grandfather. He was her father for all intsens and purposes since she was born but not biologically. This is just the top two in a long list of things that she keeps from my brother and I for our own good.
Let me just add that i am not mad at my mother and she seems to be better about it . We had a talk after she had lump in her ****** and said nothing until she found out it was not cancer. She recently founr pre cancerous cells in her uterus and told me right away. I just wonder if it is the norm
My mother is really bad about keeping scereats “for our own good” The first time i knew of was when i was in college my uncle died and his funeral was during my final exams. We could not afford for me to come home and my ticket to come home was already set for the week later. She did not tell me he died tell i got home. Then i recently found out that my grand father is not my grandfather. He was her father for all intsens and purposes since she was born but not biologically. This is just the top two in a long list of things that she keeps from my brother and I for our own good.
Let me just add that i am not mad at my mother and she seems to be better about it . We had a talk after she had lump in her ****** and said nothing until she found out it was not cancer. She recently founr pre cancerous cells in her uterus and told me right away. I just wonder if it is the norm